What are the best books about love, sex, and intimacy?

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    #1The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

    The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

    The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman and Nan Silver is a guideline about maintaining or rebuilding the core of every relationship, especially marriage - trust.


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    Marilyn Curtis
    Written on April 24, 2018
    "This was an extremely insightful read leading up to (ironically) my divorce. It helped me to more clearly identify what was going wrong in my marriage and what it would take to fix it. His descriptions of the different ways couples argue were especially helpful. He provides relationship strengthening exercises that can be done individually or as a couple. One exercise in particular provided a lot of clarity because my immediate thought on reading it was, "This seems like a really good idea, but the emotional toll it would take on me given the state of our relationship isn't a cost I'm willing to bear." That sober look at the costs necessary to repair my marriage allowed me to clearly see the pros and cons of staying in the relationship. Although we ultimately divorced, I continue to use the insight I gained from this book in evaluating the health and long-term viability of my dating relationships. "
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    #2Mating in Captivity

    Mating in Captivity

    Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic is a nonfiction psychological self-help relationship book written by Esther Perel. With over 200 pages, this book is published in 2016 by Harper.


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    Mark Jacobs
    Written on May 12, 2018
    "Mating in Captivity is a bit of an imprecise book about love and sex, but it still contains what you might call some useful anecdotes about the subject. What I mean by 'imprecise' is that those anecdotes are pretty much all you'll make any use of because there is little to no practical advice. Though, perhaps that is the point."
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    #3The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists

    The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists

    Neil Strauss, the author of this book, spent two years living among men whose main goal was to seduce as many women as possible. These man, who can be found in every city in the world, shared their thoughts and fears on the seducing game, and Neil collected all this insight to share it with everyone in this book. 


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    Gary Edwards
    Written on April 23, 2018
    "This book takes a real good look at love, intimacy, and sex. it follows neil strauss and his adventures as a pick up artist."
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    #4New Game +

    New Game +

    New Game +: The Geek's Guide to Love, Sex, & Dating is a book written by Harris O’Malley, also known as Dr. NerdLove). This book was published by Thought Catalog Books in 2015.


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    Diana Wu
    Written on April 27, 2018
    "I wanted to read something about love, sex, and intimacy and a friend told me about this gem. It's a bit over the top I think, not everyone is this geeky... right?"
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    #5The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

    The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them

    With this book you will be able to seduce any women you want: rather than focusing on how to get the attention of women, this book will allow you to spot and learn what they want, so you can give it to her and therefore stealing their heart.


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    #6The Art of Seduction

    The Art of Seduction
    Written by Robert Greene, this books is an analysis of humanity's greatest seducers. This way, the author finds and points out those things that have always attracted women, no matter the age they were in, so you can make the most of every situation to make sure you get that girl you have been thinking about lately. 


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    Phillip Murphy
    Written on April 20, 2018
    "I remember this book from many years ago when I was single. This book was a big help in getting me out there and mingling in society. It helped my confidence and I got a good bit of dates until I finally met the woman I married. If you are a single man, this book is the right choice. It should be required reading for any young adult."
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    #7Models: Attract Women Through Honesty

    Models: Attract Women Through Honesty

    This book is a guide on how to seduce women, focusing on key parts like: what causes female attraction, how to overcome nervousness when talking to any women, how to appear more attractive to women, and much more. 


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    Madison Ford
    Written on April 18, 2018
    "I have a single guy friend that is struggling with a lack of confidence and finds it to meet women and I decided to try and find him a book about sex and intimacy. This one popped up and it was exactly what I had hoped to find. My friend loves it and got some really good advice from this book. A great read for anybody looking to meet and date more women. "
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    #8No More Mr Nice Guy

    No More Mr Nice Guy
    This book will help those who are always looking to please others instead of focusing of fulfilling their own needs, which usually leaves them sad and frustrated. Following the steps and tips from this book, every 'nice guy' will be able to start doing what they need to be happy and successful. 


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    Harold Nguyen
    Written on April 20, 2018
    "Some might cry that the very existence of this book is sexist, but I am inclined to disagree with that. As a guy myself that used to do the whole "nice guy" bit, I found it a breath of fresh air. There are some real self-improvement tips in there and it isn't all just sex. I really enjoyed this and recommend it to men especially. "
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    #9Get To Sex Fast

    Get To Sex Fast

    This book contains easy to follow step-by-step guides that can make any man have sex with any woman in the first or second date. After many years and dates, BlackDragon has been able to set a few rules and musts that you have to follow in order to increase your chances of getting laid to 100%.


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    Walter Hart
    Written on April 30, 2018
    "I was looking for a book about sex and a friend recommended Get To Sex Fast. I think the book is very superficial and shallow, and half of what the author talks about never actually happens in real life."
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    #10The Second Sex

    The Second Sex

    The Second Sex by French author Simone de Beauvoir is a powerful analysis of the Western notion of a woman, and a revolutionary exploration of inequality and otherness. The French book was originally published in 1949.


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    Diane Morales
    Written on April 19, 2018
    "This is a long, difficult book to get through but well worth the read. Simone de Beauvoir dives deep into womanhood. It should be required reading for all women in the western world. "
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    #11The Geek's Guide to Dating

    The Geek's Guide to Dating

    The Geek's Guide to Dating is a dating book written by Eric Smith which features illustrations and tips on finding and getting a date. Published by Quirk Books in 2013.


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    Eric Cook
    Written on April 25, 2018
    "I've always been a person who has been lost when it comes to topics such as love, sex and intimacy. With the The Geek's Guide to Dating, I've been able to solve my problem. This book helped me understand everything about the world and other people that I wasn't taught by my parents. "
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    #12Dating Guide For IT Geeks

    Dating Guide For IT Geeks

    Dating Guide For IT Geeks is a dating electronic book (ebook) written by Sharon Lin which features IT principles which can be applied in the dating scene. This book aims to help an IT professional find a date.


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    José Luis Soriano
    Written on April 18, 2018
    "This book is very useful for shy people to find some idea how to impress your partner in dating. "


Best What are the best books about love, sex, and intimacy
1The Seven Principles for Making Marriage WorkBooks 35 Paid
2Mating in CaptivityBooks 15 Paid
3The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup ArtistsBooks 14 Paid
4New Game +Books 13 Paid
5The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to ThemBooks 11 Paid
6The Art of SeductionBooks 9 Paid
7Models: Attract Women Through HonestyBooks 8 Paid
8No More Mr Nice GuyBooks 7 Paid
9Get To Sex FastBooks 5 Paid
10The Second Sex Books 3 Paid

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